Childhood Cancer Is Not a St. Jude’s Commercial

We’ve all been there. We see a bald headed beauty on a St. Jude commercial and think “aww, that’s sad.” and go about our day, right? Unless you can relate to that bald headed beauty because your child has cancer. Or you know a child with cancer. Then it becomes a harsh, unfair reality. It becomes a battle that desperately needs more awareness, funding and help.

I have a very love/hate relationship with those commercials. On the one hand, any awareness for childhood cancer is a good thing, but on the other, people literally think that is what childhood cancer looks like. A beautiful bald headed toddler running around with a smile on their face, a bow on their head and an IV pump in tow… or a 15 year old boy getting a visit from a local athlete. While that can be a small glimpse of childhood cancer, that is not the majority of childhood cancer.

You know, childhood cancer is UGLY. It’s grueling. It’s heart wrenching. It sends parents to funeral homes, nurses home in tears, siblings home alone and hospital beds full. It brings a grown man to his knees and doctors running in circles trying to save a 2 year old from going into respiratory failure.

Childhood cancer is full of mucositis, fevers, skin changes, vomiting, hair loss, a cold for you, a death sentence for them. It’s literally watching the light in a child’s eyes fade. Have you ever had strep throat? Multiply that by 5 million, add sores not just in your mouth, but all down your GI tract and then light them on fire. That’s how I could only assume the pain feels like when I watch kids get hooked up to a pain pump and not even be able to swallow for days on end. That is a common side effect of chemotherapy… THAT is childhood cancer.

I wrote a blog a month ago, The Happy Floor describing the strength and the resiliency that kids who have to battle childhood cancer have, but I never want you to get that confused with the hell they go through. These kids and their parents are the strongest people I know, but shouldn’t have to fight a battle never meant for them.

Watching a child battle cancer is hard to look at… this I know. But can you imagine watching them die because there isn’t enough funding and research to support a more humane cure? Because I have.

Do better, America.

#MoreThan4 #NotRare 

“This is childhood cancer. This was Charlie’s second of four doses of high dose methotrexate. This was at midnight and she was still awake because she hates sleeping in the hospital. Fluid overloaded because of all of the IV fluid she had to get to protect her organs from the chemo we gave her. I don’t share these photos often, because it is depressing and hard for me to look at. But our kids deserve so much better than the toxic chemicals we pump into their bodies to kill the cancer. Because of her treatment, she will always be at risk for developing secondary cancers. She will likely have long term side effects from the treatment, as most kids do. This is why I advocate for more awareness and more funding for childhood cancer research.” -Brittney Peter, mom of 2 year old Charlie, battling acute lymphoblastic leukemia
Here are a few places you can donate to, private organizations that do their own funding. 
Want to do your part, but look good while doing it? These companies give to childhood cancer research based off a percentage of their profit:
Fourth and Gold -> Donates 100% of profit in September, 50% all other months and donates a warrior shirt to a child with cancer with every purchase made
Love Your Melon -> Donates 50% of profit and donates a LYM beanie to a child with cancer with every beanie sold
Head Bands of Hope -> Donates 10% of profit and donates a headband to a child with cancer with every headband sold

11 thoughts on “Childhood Cancer Is Not a St. Jude’s Commercial

  1. I pray that soon this demon will be eradicated so these poor children will stop being scared and suffering from being poked and prodded to try to save their life’s. God bless and help them. Thank God for the nurses that work in oncology they are truly Gods Special Angels.St Jude’s is not a commercial. It’s a plea to help with the funding to help where or whatever is needed.ThankGod for all of the children’s hospitals that take care of these children and hopefully get to send home these kids CANCER FREE. Please support them🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  2. Wow really I have never heard anyone say anything bad about St Jude. St Jude is all about helping kids. You and your Organization are very sad. Wow.

    1. I’m sorry you feel that way, No Way. You can easily email me if you’d like to have a conversation. Me and my organization are far from sad. We’ve helped many children battling cancer and will continue to do so without your approval. I’ve never said a bad word about St Jude’s. They’re a wonderful organization who helps the children they’re able to help. Have a great day😊

      1. Clearly you didn’t read what Erin was saying in her blog. Please go back and reread, because there was nothing bad mentioned in her blog bad about St. Jude.

    2. Do you lack comprehension skills? Where in this article did she bad mouth saint jude? Do you know how to read? Maybe brush up on your reading and comprehension skills before bad mouthing her and her organization 💁

    3. Now Way….Erin has not bad mouthed St Jude, but here’s a piece of information from a cancer mom that not all the public is aware of. Not all children are accepted to their facility. If you don’t meet one of their trials exactly you may be turned away. So, while they do a lot of research for our kids, they do require everyone to be enrolled in a clinical trial to go there. And all subsequent treatment and care has to be done in Memphis.

    4. They werent putting St. Judes down in anyway they were just saying it isnt as happy as it looks. Kids are in pain, sick and have poison pumped into them in hope it can save their life. St. Jude does amazing things for kids and their families. Alot of people dont see the ugly side of cancer treatment.

  3. Erin is a Pediatric oncology nurse. It takes a very special person to do what she does. When my son started chemo at 16 his older sister would cry to me afterwards from seeing all the younger kids crying when they were poked/ accessed with a needle in their ports to get chemo. These were not smiling bald little children like they are portrayed as in commercials. These were tiny, frail, scared little children who should be playing with their friends or asleep in cribs. The way the media portrays childhood cancer is not accurate. Please go back and read the article.

  4. Hi Erin. I found your blog through a friend’s Facebook…Angela LaRue. Angela and I “met” on line because of a wonderful charity that was inspired by my son, Michael Bruhn. It’s called Gamerosity. Games+Generosity=Gamerosity. Through crowd-funding they provide a campaign for a child going through treatment and once enough is raised (about $500) an iPad mini and a whole set of wonderful items is provided the child. Our Michael received his iPad whilst in treatment on Christmas Eve 2012. He and another child actually got each other’s iPad’s (ours says Marik). I’m rambling. Sorry. There’s a lot more to the story but I wanted to say I would love to subscribe to your blog! And everything you said was SPOT ON!
    Thank you.

    1. Hi Kimberly!

      What a fantastic charity! I love that! You took an awful situation and made the world a better place because of it. We need more people like you in the world💛 I’d love to have you subscribe to our blog- on the main page on the right side there’s a subscribe button😊 thank you for your incredibly kind words!

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